Whist researching "Effects of Pornography - positive or negative" I came across this article in the Telegraph. Not a newspaper I would normally alight on for discussion about pornography but nevertheless a really great article. Even better it has the link to the full length ted talk given by Cindy Gallop in 2009 where she talks about pornography and how far removed it is from real sex, with its lack of hair, lack of fumbling, getting it wrong at times, without the mess of good sex. Do watch it if you have a spare 20 minutes.